The Tough Questions

“Peter, do you love me?”

Talk about a tough question that puts you on the spot, especially after having denied Christ three times when it mattered most. Jesus never asked a question to which He didn’t already know the answer. So why ask? Reason–there was something Peter needed to know about himself, about his heart, and asking the tough question was the only way for him to discover the truth. For Jesus, community mattered. He cared enough about Peter to ask the tough questions.

Beginning of the Story

This story really began when Jesus told Peter, “You will disown me three times.” It wasn’t a harsh  or condemning statement. Jesus was for Peter. He was on Peter’s side. In fact, immediately after telling him what would happen, Jesus said, “Do not let your hearts be troubled. (John 14:1, NIV)”  But instead of asking Jesus what He saw in him that would lead him to deny knowing Christ,  Peter refused to examine his heart, insisting instead that even if the others left he would never do so. And he meant it at the time. Peter thought he knew his own heart–that he truly loved (agaped) Christ enough to make the hard choices in difficult times. “I won’t fail you. I’ll be faithful. I’ll be there for you even if the others aren’t.” Unfortunately, Peter too quickly dismissed Christ’s ‘feedback‘ because he couldn’t see into the blind spots of his heart.

Blind Spots

The fact is none of us can see into our own blind spots. That’s part of the reason God placed us within the community of believers we call the Church. We need others to walk along side and to speak truth into our lives with love. The problem is, within the Church, we rarely teach how to give and receive feedback from one another nor do we provide the opportunity for this to happen. You can’t ask the tough questions without some face-to-face time in a community where you feel safe enough to be open and honest.

Who Is In Your Community?

So, who in your community asks you the tough questions? For me, it’s Aaron, my best friend. Many times I don’t like the questions but I know he loves me and that God placed him in my life. The following video shows a great example of asking the tough questions. In it, Mark Driscoll and Joshua Harris question Francis Chan about why he’s leaving Cornerstone Church in Simi Valley, CA. At one point, in an effort to force Francis to examine his true motives for leaving, Mark asks, “Is this a discontentedness in your soul that won’t ever be satisfied?” All of us, at times, need feedback–someone to speak truthfully into our lives, into those blind spots that hinder our growth in Christ. So think for a moment. Are you part of a community? And if so, who within your community of believers, your circle of friends, your church–who do you trust enough to ask you the tough questions?

Francis Chan Interviewed by Mark Driscoll and Joshua Harris

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He is Risen – Let His Children Celebrate

He is not Here

The angel said to the women, ‘Do not be afraid, for I know that you are looking for Jesus, who was crucified. He is not here; he has risen, just as he said.” (Matthew 28:5-6, NIV) This is the season to rejoice in the death and resurrection of Jesus Christ, our Savior. The tomb is empty. He’s not here. While this is the Good News, sometimes it leaves me feeling all alone without the flesh and blood body of Christ standing in front of me. But Jesus didn’t leave me alone. Not only did he send the Comforter (Acts 2:4), but he placed me in relationships within a community of believers, the Church. Sometimes I forget that I have a large family that spans the world. Sometimes, I need a reminder.

Celebrate the Resurrection

Easter Sunday 2010, over 1300 of our brothers and sisters in Hungary celebrated the Resurrection in a unique way, they danced before the Lord in the public square, a square that not long ago lay under Soviet rule. They are part of my family, a community of believers whose lives have been radically changed by the Resurrection of Christ Jesus. Enjoy this reminder that you’re not alone.

Resurrection Sunday Dance, Budapest, Hungary

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Celebration 2011

Tomorrow, many groups around the world will celebrate the Resurrection in a similar fashion in their public square. Organized by Up To Faith, thousands of believers in places like the Ukraine, Austria, Barcelona, Hong Kong, Romania, Indonesia, Slovakia, and Budapest have been practicing months for tomorrow’s celebration. Click on Up To Faith to see their practices. Videos of tomorrow’s celebration will be posted at a later date.

Up To Faith Global Dance 2011 – Trailer

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The last thing Jesus said in the gospel of Matthew was, “I am with you always, to the very end of the age.” (vs. 28:20, NIV) With Christ in my heart, the Comforter with me, and a community of believers at my side, I’m not alone and neither are you.


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